FAVORITE RESOURCES {for pregnancy and birth}
“Birth is not only about making babies. Birth is about making mothers -- strong, competent, capable mothers who trust themselves and know their inner strength."
-- Barbara Katz Rothman
It takes a village and you are not alone. There are people, resources, networks and communities to support you in your journey. Below are a few starting points to explore and more specific recommendations can be made after we get to know each other:
EVIDENCE BASED RESEARCH ON BIRTH
- Evidence-Based Birth Blog- A fantastic selection of useful and well researched articles/videos for a range of common birth issues (i.e. prenatal vitamins, pain management during birth, skin-to-skin, breastfeeding, etc.)
- Childbirth Connection- A detailed and fact-based site that explains all stages of the pregnancy journey, providing both medical and real-world insights.
- Cochrane Database of Systematic Reviews- Clinical trials, case studies and reviews (scroll down the homepage to the "Pregnancy and Childbirth" section and/or "Complimentary & Alternative Medicine" section. Note: the filter and search engine on this site are very helpful).
- VBAC Facts- A combination of research and personal experiences about the risks and advantages of having a vaginal birth after cesarean (VBAC).
- The Coalition for Improving Maternity Services- An advocacy group focused on promoting The Mother-Friendly Childbirth Initiative and raising awareness about the experience of childbirth.
OPTIMAL FETAL POSITIONING
- Spinning Babies Website- Leading resource on natural techniques to shift fetal positions and understand the importance of positioning in the birth experience.
- Is your baby in the "ideal" fetal position? - This website offers an informative visual of each fetal position and offers anecdotal examples of methods of influencing your baby's position.
- Seeking Professional Help- This article offers an overview of some professional services to support creating ideal fetal positioning such as physical therapy, massage, chiropractic sessions, acupuncture, craniosacral therapy, etc.
- 10 Reasons Prenatal Yoga will Help- by Prenatal Yoga Center
PRENATAL CARE
- Centering Pregnancy Care Model- A small group of women with similar due dates meet together for regular session with their healthcare provider. During this time, mothers are provided individual health check-ups, education and support while bonding with other expecting mothers. Find a location.
- How to Find Your Right Prenatal Care Provider?
NUTRITION (Remember to consult with you provider before adopting a new diet during pregnancy)
- March of Dimes Overview of Nutrition, Weight & Fitness- This site offers many links about why specific nutrients are important and addresses many commonly asked questions.
- Mayo Clinic Diet- This is a basic and simple overview of nutritional guidelines for pregnancy.
- Ayurveda and Pregnancy- For mothers who are familiar with Ayurvedic principles and would like to continue through pregnancy and postpartum, this blog offers some helpful and holistic advice for nutrition and overall balance. Vaidya Shaaranya, the author and Ayurveda specialist, is also available for private consultations remotely.
- The Brewer Diet- A diet developed in the 1950's and 1960's to support both normal and high-risk pregnancies (especially incidence of pre-eclampsia/eclampsia(toxemia)). The Brewer diet is high in protein and whole grains and relatively high in fat. Here is the original sister site that also offers some more information on this diet. (NOTE: Both websites are not well maintained but are still full of treasures.)
- Mama Natural - A simple breakdown and summary of key things to keep in mind to nourish your body through the pregnancy journey.
COMMON CHILDBIRTH TECHNIQUES & TOOLS
- How to Choose a Childbirth Class by Brandy Ferner on Huffington Post
- Expectful- A wonderful companion throughout your pregnancy and birth experience providing grounding meditations for every moment.
- The Miles Circuit- A precious tool prenatally and during early labor to help regulate and/or speed up labor.
- The Bradley Method-Also called husband-coached birth, the Bradley method prepares the mother to deliver naturally without pain medications and prepares the baby's father to be mom's birth coach. That said, parents are also prepared for unexpected emergencies and shifts in plan. There is also a focus given to prenatal diet and the overall well-being of the parents.
- Lamaze International- This technique does not promote the use of interventions nor discourages it. Lamaze education helps women to gain confidence in their bodies, to trust their innate ability to give birth and to make informed decisions about pregnancy, birth, breastfeeding and parenting.
- Hypnobirthing / The Mongan Method- A technique of natural childbirth that uses complete relaxation, self-hypnosis, visualization and breath to release fears and soften the intensity of birth. Teachers emphasize pregnancy and childbirth, as well as on pre-birth parenting and the consciousness of the pre-born baby.
CESAREAN & VBAC SUPPORT
- International Cesarean Awareness Network (ICAN)- A non-profit organization whose mission is to improve maternal-child health by reducing preventable cesareans through education, supporting cesarean recovery, and advocating for vaginal birth after cesarean (VBAC).
- Ideas for the Best Planned Cesarean Possible by Penny Simkin
- Feel your Best after C-Section- Tips on what to expect in your healing process and how to prepare
BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT
- La Leche League International- An international organization focused on providing one-on-one support and develops peer-to-peer environments for new parents. Every city has its own chapter and hosts various free events and free professional consultations.
- Health Direct, Pregnancy, Birth & Baby- This is one of my favorite and most practical sites that explains the basics of breastfeeding, while addressing some common challenges and misconceptions.
- Kelly Mom- This site addresses a wide range of breastfeeding myths, facts and tips (as well as a wide range of other pregnancy related topics).
- Healthy Children Project, Center for Breastfeeding- This site lists informative videos and books for both medical professionals and new parents.
- Is my Baby Getting Enough Milk? This is the most common concern for mothers days after birth. This overview is a quick guide of what to look for to answer this question.
- Is your Baby Hungry or Full? Responsive Feeding Explained. Learn all about the practice of responsive feeding and how to understand, recognize, and respond to your baby's hunger or fullness cues
- Is Mom Getting Enough Water? Hydration is essential during pregnancy, critical during labor and equally important during breastfeeding. Find out more in this article.
PREPARING FOR POSTPARTUM
- Prenatal Yoga Center Blog Post- This article is a snapshot of key spheres to consider when imagining your postpartum experience.
- Healthy Foundations Birth Center- This post highlights the most important aspect of postpartum, which is to nourish and rest. The lists found here may support your preparation efforts, so that you can maximize your peaceful bonding time with your baby.
- Researching healthy prepared meals and grocery stores that deliver to your neighborhood can also be a very helpful option on hand!
- Check-List for Postpartum Essentials- Although postpartum will be an evolving process, there are many sphere's involved and this list offers a helpful overview of some things to consider.
- The Fourth Trimester: A Postpartum Guide to Healing Your Body, Balancing Your Emotions, and Restoring Your Vitality by Kimberly Ann Johnson (book)
ADJUSTING INTO POSTPARTUM
- Positive Postpartum Affirmations- Words are powerful. Affirmations support in building positive mental health for both you and your baby
- Stroller Strong Moms- Have fun, be challenged and connect with other mom's as you feel strong in your postpartum body (Locations across the US)
- Set up a Meal Train- Allow friends and family to show their love by setting up a calendar of provided meals (and/or other type of needed support)
- Find a Postpartum Doula in your area
- Tips for Mom's Diet & Sleep
POSTPARTUM DEPRESSION RESOURCES
- The Postnatal Project- You are not alone and there is no 'one size fits all' approach. This site/movement seeks to shed light on the realities of the postnatal period and provide soulful support through skilled consultations, connection, experience and facts.
- How Nutrition Can Affect Postpartum Depression- A woman's body can be continuously depleted after birth and nutritional intake is a key part of a wholistic wellness plan for healing and transition through the fourth trimester.
- Postpartum Support International- This is the number to a postpartum helpline 800-944-4773. There are links on this site to connect you to local resources for support.
- Fact Sheet on Postpartum Depression- This site offers an overview of common questions about depression and lists ways to recognize they symptoms after birth.
- Tips for Postpartum Dads & Partners- Depression effects everyone and it is important to remember that you are never alone. This link offers some helpful tips for mom's support team.
- HealthyChildren.org- This site does a good job of differentiating between baby blues, postpartum depression and psychosis. There are also some relevant links on the bottom of the article for follow-up.
IDENTITY & TRANSFORMATION
- Processing Your Birth Story, by Nikki Shaheed (podcast)
- Becoming a Father, by Pam England on Pathways to Family Wellness (article)
- Setting Up Realistic Expectations Of Birth, by Brandy Ferner on Huffington Post (article)
- Are you ready to add "mom" to your identity?, An honest conversation with Hannah Lamprey, founder of Fourth Trimester Collective, about the reality of postpartum life and the importance of connection (podcast)
- Labyrinth of Birth: Creating a Map, Meditations and Rituals for Your Childbearing Year, by Pam England (book)
- Birthing from Within An Extra-Ordinary Guide to Childbirth Preparation, by Pam England and Rob Horowitz (book)
GRIEF & LOSS RESOURCES
- glow in the woods, A powerful home to grieve honestly and openly and remember you are not alone
- Share: Pregnancy & Infant Loss Support, Find a chapter near you
- The Compassionate Friends: Supporting Family After a Child Dies, A virtual support community
- Faces of Loss, Faces of Hope: Putting a Face on Miscarriage, Stillbirth & Infant Loss
- Miscarriage Support, including support for Men Grieving & Ceremony & Naming
- Institute of Birth, Breath & Death offers "Holding Space Consultations" on a sliding scale for those processing grief & loss
PARENTING RESOURCES
- Whole Hearted Parenting: Daring to be the Adults we want our Children to Be, by Brené Brown (scroll to first audio download)
- The Gifts of Imperfect Parenting, by Dr. Brené Brown
- The Baby Book: Everything You Need to Know About Your Baby From Birth to Age Two (book)
- Life Kit: Parenting from NPR (podcast)
- The Conscious Parent, by Dr. Shefali Tsabary (book)
- Elevating Child Care: A Guide to Respectful Parenting, by Janet Lansbury (book)
- Siblings Without Rivalry: How to Help Your Children Live Together So You Can Live Too, by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish (book)
- The Whole-Brain Child, by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson (book)
- The Happiest Baby on the Block, by Harvey Karp (book)
“You are not a drop in the ocean. You are an entire ocean within a drop."
-- Rumi